Yes, those seeking me or who I am seeking can find me in spirit dream space. especially if they know how to reach me. Same as always. Thus why I can talk to Thunderbird/Hawk god in my dream space to ask a question as long as I am respectful. Lucid dreaming in vision dreams means I still and always walk where I will. 

But no, my polar bear can't reach me right now in lucid dreams, he hasn't been able to for a couple weeks now. Why? because i felt that was right. I haven't done anything to the bond in any way, HE is still free to reach me any damn time he wants when he seeks me from a place of pure intent. What I did do is block any and all energy from the lamprey twined through his life reaching me. As long as the lamprey is twined around and through him, he will never reach me again. HE can reach me, anything with the energy signature of the lamprey he allowed to twine through his life and feed on his energy source can NOT reach me. That was a simpler side step I should have thought of ages ago when i was having issues of the scorpion chick in his life and the overlays from that. *shrugs* The polar bear is welcome to find me in dream space again WHEN he is ethically free to do so, and not a moment sooner. And not allowing any touch of the lampreys energy to reach me solves the ethics issue of his soul reaching for me while being with her in the 3d. 

I came up with that elegant solution while out in Kirkland right after the eclipse. It came from some advice that the Morrigan gave me when she escorted Audrey's soul for a dream space visit -- she told me I was wasting an awful lot of my own energy and mental space in trying to block the polar bear when the polar bear himself QUA himself isn't the issue, it's the other energy he's allowed to become twined around him and feeding on him is the problem. She then winked at me and said, "take the advice, work smarter not harder, my dovekin." That's what gave me the clue for how I was going the wrong way about it trying to figure out how to put the bond to sleep or diminish it in any way. the elegance of this is that it doesn't touch the bond whatsoever, and no amount of energy he puts into the bond to reach me will overpower me so he CAN reach me as long as he has the lamprey's energy twined around him and his energy. he's not blocked, just her energy -- and as long as her energy is twining through him he can't reach me via the bond no matter how hard he tries or how frustrated he gets about not having that connection available.

And the best part about it is that it costs me no energy to maintain so I have more energy available to focus where needed, like on pouring love and tranquility into Waffles as she adjusts to her new life. (She's doing so well!!! She's accepted and done well with all her new friends at MCW. And Spock is doing better at accepting Waffles -- not well but better. he's now allowing her about a foot from him before the hissing starts and stays in the same room. he even allowed her right next to him as long as there was a foot or more vertical distance between them today so they both got treats with the cat on the bar stools and the dog on the floor next to them. Still a long way to go though with him.)

It may be hard on the polar bear to not be able to reach me at all down the bond, but if he thinks the lamprey his soulmate he wants to be with in his life then he has no business reaching down the bond for me. Not even for inspiration to write songs.  But as for the old gods and goddesses and archangels and fée, they can all always reach me. Ain't none of them got the lampreys energy signature wound through them. And anyway, i reckon even if they did, they are powerful enough to get around me while I'm incarnating. Only so much energy can be run through a physical body. And that's not nearly as much power as an unincarnated deity linked to Source can use. 

So old gods/goddesses and angels and fairfolk can still reach me easily. Just not the polar bear because no one with the lamprey's energy twining around them (or through them) can reach me. Which is a surprisingly easy thing to have done.